My husband reads all my posts before I post them. Sometimes he'll laugh out loud and other times he'll just say ..."that was good hon". This is because he has heard all my stories, my whining, my kvetching and complaining a hundred million times so my thoughts are "old news" to him. Right now I'm working on a post that is basically my thoughts on the last 18 months of my unemployment and I had him read it. You know what he said? He said I sound like a hater! A negative, angry woman. Now ... this is exactly what you DO NOT say to a co-dependent woman. Now I'm all thinking ... "maybe I AM a hater? maybe I am a negative, angry woman? Maybe I am baaaaaad? Maybe if I exercised and lost weight I'd be better? Maybe I'd get a job? Maybe if I wasn't me I could be someone else... someone better? ... someone more positive? Maybe I'd be one of those people who just attracts wealth and success to them? ... IT'S ALL MY FAULT, ALL OF IT! The war in Afghanistan, the economy, Katrina ... my negative thoughts have infiltrated the ether of life and I'm to blame for it all?!? SEE?! SEE WHAT I MEAN? This is what it's like to be me. Thank God for meds.
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Don't be a hater...be a participator. Your not negative you just tell it like it is...(pretty negative), but you say it sista...gotta like thaet...oppsie(I meant that..that error was your fault)...LMAO!!!
I wrote a post a couple of months ago. I shelved it because I didn't finish it and it kinod got lost...
I went back to reread and I was blown away by the amount of whine/hater/whoa is me that was in it!
Somedays the hormones just do a number on us. THAT's what I'm blaming it on...
:-)
Listen Comadre, This is your post. Not hubby's, not mine, not anyone else'. It's about what you think, feel, want and yes, HATE! So let 'er rip. As long as you don't take me down, wind her up and let her go. It's a form of therapy and you don't have to pay a thing.
Love ya,
Marie
You're hardly a "hater," cousin.
Arch and witty, is more like it!
By the by, I finally saw "Lord of the Rings" and I must admit that Viggo is quite the tasty morsel in that flick.
Debbie - You post girl! Your thoughts, feelings, kvetching, etc. is WONDERFUL! It's therapy at its best. Most of us think about saying what you write, but we are too embarrassed to actually voice it or write it down....we live vicariously through you! Go Debbie! Luv ya, Corinne
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